Havah and her husband, high school sweethearts, had always dreamed of adopting. They initially believed the journey would be financially out of reach, but life’s challenges—including the heartbreak of losing a child— led them to rediscover that dream. Through All For Kids, they found the guidance and support needed to make their dream a reality, ultimately welcoming three foster children into their home along with their two biological children. The family adopted the three children and share that each adoption brought unique experiences and challenges, as well as moments of joy and growth.
Havah speaks of her three adopted children with deep pride, describing how each child has added a new chapter to their story. Her youngest, who came to them with developmental challenges due to early neglect, has blossomed in a stable and loving home. “The positive impact of love and a consistent family environment has been profound,” she shares. “Watching them grow, seeing their personalities shine, and knowing they feel safe has been life-changing for all of us.” Havah has also navigated relationships with each child’s birth family, embracing openness and understanding as they have built a bridge of mutual respect. She shares the many ways she fostered this connection, such as using a journal to update birth parents and creating physical keepsakes like printed photos. “It’s a simple gesture, but it’s meant a lot in keeping a respectful relationship,” she explains.
Her story reflects not only the love and acceptance within her immediate family but also the support of an extended family that has embraced every child with open arms. “Our family has rallied around us and welcomed our children wholeheartedly, regardless of whether they’re biological or adopted,” she says. This sense of community has been a source of strength and joy, showing her children that they are cherished and supported.
Havah emphasizes the importance of community, sharing how fostering and adopting have positively influenced her children’s lives and brought out the best in those around them. “The support from All For Kids, along with our extended family, has transformed our lives,” she says. “We’ve been able to give our children a new beginning and a family where they’re truly accepted.”
In sharing her journey, Havah’s story reflects the resilience and transformative power of love, community, and care. Through the joys and challenges, she and her husband have built a family defined not by blood but by commitment and open-hearted acceptance. Her journey is a testament to the beautiful and lasting impact of adoption, a reminder of the hope and healing that come from building a family through love.