The Basics of Fatherhood: 5 Must-Read Parenting Books For Fathers

Congratulations, you’re going to be a dad! From the moment you heard those words, there’s no doubt that a million thoughts and emotions started running through your head. Preparing for fatherhood can be overwhelming, from excitement to panic to joy or anxiety. However, being an involved, loving father is one of the greatest gifts you can offer your child and their future success.

Research shows that children with an involved father often have higher self-control, sociability, and confidence. These children perform better in school and are at a lower risk of engaging in risky teenage behaviors. This applies to both father-son and father-daughter relationships. For young girls, father involvement can reduce psychological issues like depression. Boys, on the other hand, have fewer behavioral problems in adolescence.

While these facts may be surprising, the correlation isn’t based on a father’s hours with a child but on the quality of their relationship. This is true even for fathers living separately from their children. Bonding activities between a parent and child can significantly impact early childhood.

Being a dad is incredible, but feeling nervous or anxious is normal. Fortunately, other parents have felt the same way. There are so many great books and resources to guide you. Here are our top five on fatherhood.

Dude, You’re Gonna Be a Dad!

John Pfeiffer’s book is the perfect read nine months before your baby’s arrival. It offers tips to avoid common misconceptions and how to partner with your loved one through pregnancy’s ups and downs. Hopefully, after reading this book, you’ll gain insight into what happens when it’s time to meet your baby.

The New Father

Armin A. Brott’s book focuses on the first year of parenthood. Each chapter explores a month in the child’s growth and development. It includes new research and information on understanding your baby’s signals, infant abilities, vaccinations and healthcare, infant massage, the roles of moms and dads, fatherhood and technology, etc. It also addresses single dads, same-sex couples, stay-at-home dads, blended families, parenting children with special needs, and more. This book has helpful advice for everyone!

Better Dads, Stronger Sons

Many men dream of having their own son and the little moments like teaching him baseball, bike riding, or spending weekends together. Rick Johnson’s book builds on the idea that there’s no greater honor, joy, or privilege than being a father. It examines father-son relationships and how to navigate them with compassion, character, and strength.

Be The Dad She Needs You to Be

Little girls need their dads as much as boys do. Many young women grow up to attest to the hurt of absent or abusive fathers. Research recognizes and values the role of fathers, as does the author of this book. Dr. Kevin Leman writes about “The Indelible Imprint a Father Leaves on His Daughter’s Life,” and the importance of a dad’s role in child development.

The Dad’s Edge

Larry Hagner’s book is filled with inspiring stories and practical tips. It explores nine ways to have “unlimited patience, improved relationships, and positive lasting memories.” It focuses on better communication and connection with your kids and how all relationships affect your parenting. This book is excellent for multiple areas of your life as a father.

At All For Kids, we celebrate dads and believe in you! We hope these books help you grow to be the best father possible. As you enter this new season of your life, walk with confidence, savor the little moments, make memories, make mistakes, and learn.

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